Even when it is in the best interests of your family, divorce is a difficult topic for most kids. Concerns about family life are normal, in this case, and it is up to you to assuage your child's fears. According to HealthyChildren.org, the way you break the news to your kids can have a huge impact on their feelings toward the matter. Here are a few methods you can use to talk to your children about divorce.
Emphasize Safety and Security
While you should always communicate openly and honestly to kids, make sure they know are still safe and secure. Many children wrongfully assume that divorce means they did something wrong, which is extremely distressing. Instead, explains that their relationships with each parent will not change and that they will continue to receive the same amount of love and affection from their parents.
Use Clear, Simple Language
This is especially important with younger children. You do not need to go into unnecessary details about your split, but you must provide clear information on what it means going forward. For example, if your spouse is leaving the family home, kids should know that as soon as possible. Gauge each child's maturity level to decide how to break the news.
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