The decision to file for divorce is rarely easy, but it can be even more challenging if your spouse reacts poorly to the idea. It is not uncommon for spouses to respond with anger, denial, or sadness when they hear the news that their partner wants a divorce. Recently, we wrote a blog detailing different ideas about bringing up the idea of divorce to your spouse. Today, we will discuss what happens if you mention getting a divorce to your spouse and they have an adverse reaction to the idea. As always, contact an experienced divorce attorney to ensure that the divorce process is followed correctly and that your rights remain protected at all times.
What to Do Once You Bring up Divorce to Your Spouse
While you may feel a rush of relief once you finally bring up the idea of divorce to your spouse, this feeling of relief may be quickly vanquished if your spouse reacts badly to the idea. Keep in mind the following considerations:
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Listen to their concerns – It is essential to listen to your spouse’s concerns and acknowledge their feelings. Even if you disagree with their reaction, try to understand where they are coming from and validate their emotions. This may help to de-escalate the situation and make it easier to move forward.
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